I know. It’s been three weeks since my last post. Not only have I failed at making this a habit (not giving up on that), but I also want to offer up many excuses (some legitimate) as to why I haven’t posted the last few weeks. The cold hard truth is that I haven’t wanted to sit down at the computer and write out the post. Honestly, how lazy am I that I don’t want to do a task that requires me to sit and only move my fingers? It’s not like I don’t have good things to update. It’s not like I have bad things to tell you. I just didn’t want to type. For that I apologize. When I started out I made the commitment to lose weight and communicate that journey. I can’t be faithful to one and neglect the other. So please forgive my laziness. I will endeavor to be more consistent with my responsibilities moving forward.
That was how I started the last entry I posted to my blog. These last few weeks since then have been a great big fail. Not only was I not “more consistent with my responsibilities” but I failed in so many other ways.
I have never really felt the holiday crush when it comes to trying to eat right and exercise faithfully. The reason for that is due mostly to the fact that I haven’t really cared before. I wasn’t trying to eat right, I just ate. I wasn’t trying to exercise faithfully I just did what I wanted to do (which more often than not consisted of doing nothing). This year was different. I was committed to eating right and exercising but when it came down to it, I was no match for the onslaught of holiday activities–most of which include minimal activity and lots of eating spectacularly not good for you food.
I struggled most with the eating right part. That statement alone could aptly sum up my life let alone the last 6 weeks. It could be on my tombstone: Here lies Jared. He was a nice guy, thought he was way funnier than he was but mostly he struggled with the eating right part. I know I don’t have to remind you about all the fantastic food one is enticed to eat in the holiday season. Just suffice it to say that when the opportunity presented itself I more often than not accepted the challenge to eat as much as I could rather than politely decline.
Exercising faithfully was not as big of a problem but I still consider it a fail. Through this time I still went to the gym regularly with the exception of the week of Christmas and the following week. I used the hectic nature of my work at Christmas (and it was stupid crazy) and the fact that I had been faithful to that point as an excuse to take a couple of weeks off. But really I would have jumped at any excuse I could to take a break.
The thing that I feel was my most miserable failure though was this blog. The other day I got an email from a fitness app I had years ago. One article was about the #1 habit all weight loss programs should have. A cross fit trainer got all his fitness buddies to write out their most common fitness habits. They narrowed the list down to 167. That was obviously too many for a successful blog post (who is going to open a post called “167 Essential Fitness Habits”). So the cross fit trainer decided to define “habit”. He came to the conclusion that a habit was something you did almost subconsciously. That definition eliminated their entire list. If they were aware of their habits enough to write out 167 of them then they weren’t as subconscious as they thought. As he discussed this with his fitness buddies, he realized that the most essential thing to effective weight loss was what he was doing at that moment: Sharing the journey.
The not so old adage goes: If someone works out and doesn’t post it to social media, did it really happen? We’ve all seen the countless images on Instagram and Facebook of people working out (I enjoy the fails the most). Most of them admittedly are doing it out of vanity and pride. But a few are endeavoring to attain an element of accountability. I decided I need to start doing this. Truth is I can’t sit down and bang out a blog post every couple of days. But I can keep a stream of information flowing through other means.
I have several social media accounts set up to which I will be posting daily updates of my journey including things I’ve eaten (or things I’ve not eaten but wanted to), exercise times and accomplishments and general information I found useful. So basically I’ll be using social media to post pictures of food and myself (original, I know) but this time it will be for a purpose. If you do not already follow me on these networks I will list how to find me below. If social media isn’t really your thing I will continue to post weekly to the blog. Not only will this allow me to communicate more openly with you but you can more easily communicate with me as well. If you want to encourage me, share a tip or just call me out on general laziness I welcome it.
Thank you for your patience and sticking with me so far. I hope to be more consistent and faithful going forward on this journey. But if I start to slack off just say something. After all, that’s what I need from you the most.
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